Sunday, July 04, 2004
Being Lonely and being alone.
Khoorshid khanoom�s posts was very interesting. She talked about 3 subjects that I used to think about them a lot.
One of them which was about loneliness was an answer to my questions.
People usually think by getting married they can overcome their loneliness and can find some one to share their moments and make memories. But just after few months or few years, they will find out nothing have been changed, their partner is not the one who always understand them and welcome them and there is no living happily ever after.
Thus they will get board of their partners and will return to their lonely shell and become invisible again.
Later on according to their possibilities they will choose to accept their lonely life or have an affair or get marry with some one else or become homosexual, just to find some one who can always love and understand them.
And again after a few month or few years they will find out things are the same, no one can understand their true feeling...
And then they will start believing that there is no real love exists: Marriage will destroys love and even Rome and Juliet love each other cuz they didn�t live together�
The point is we want to take advantage of love to cover up our loneliness. But being lonely is not some thing that we can cover it by some one else�s help. It�s internal. We should learn how to teat ourselves, so we won�t feel unloved and lonely when we are by ourselves.
This is not true that there is no real love exists, and there is no one trust worthy to love. Its just love has different stages and sexual love (the love between 2 different sexes, or same sexes for homosexual people) is just one of the basic loves that we can experiences.
We can open our eyes to different sort of loves.
When we have some thing to love we are not lonely again.
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Khoorshid khanoom�s posts was very interesting. She talked about 3 subjects that I used to think about them a lot.
One of them which was about loneliness was an answer to my questions.
People usually think by getting married they can overcome their loneliness and can find some one to share their moments and make memories. But just after few months or few years, they will find out nothing have been changed, their partner is not the one who always understand them and welcome them and there is no living happily ever after.
Thus they will get board of their partners and will return to their lonely shell and become invisible again.
Later on according to their possibilities they will choose to accept their lonely life or have an affair or get marry with some one else or become homosexual, just to find some one who can always love and understand them.
And again after a few month or few years they will find out things are the same, no one can understand their true feeling...
And then they will start believing that there is no real love exists: Marriage will destroys love and even Rome and Juliet love each other cuz they didn�t live together�
The point is we want to take advantage of love to cover up our loneliness. But being lonely is not some thing that we can cover it by some one else�s help. It�s internal. We should learn how to teat ourselves, so we won�t feel unloved and lonely when we are by ourselves.
This is not true that there is no real love exists, and there is no one trust worthy to love. Its just love has different stages and sexual love (the love between 2 different sexes, or same sexes for homosexual people) is just one of the basic loves that we can experiences.
We can open our eyes to different sort of loves.
When we have some thing to love we are not lonely again.
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